I think that Margaret Fuller would
have understood and sympathized with Rip Van Winkle’s ideas about the value of
wilderness. For Rip, the beautiful
wooded wilderness of the Kaatskill Mountains is a place of sanctuary, the only
place left where he can escape from his wife’s abusive treatment. “Poor Rip was at last reduced almost to
despair; and his only alternative to escape from the labour of the farm and the
clamour of his wife, was to take gun in hand, and stroll away into the woods”
(459). The wilderness is the one place
where he can find peace and simply be himself without being castigated for
it. Fuller expresses a similar sort of
idea when she says, “If any individual live too much in relations, so that he
becomes a stranger to the resources of his own nature, he falls after a while
into a distraction, or imbecility, from which he can only be cured by a time of
isolation, which gives the renovating fountains time to rise up” (745). Her use of the masculine pronouns “he” and “his”
demonstrates her understanding that persons of both genders need periods of solitude
in order to realize their true selves.
Further, I think Fuller would have
recognized that the Van Winkles’ marriage was not representative of any of the “four
kinds of equality” (739) she wrote about:
“the household partnership” where “their relation is one of mutual
esteem, mutual dependence” (739); “intellectual companionship” (739); “mutual
idolatry” (739); or “the religious, which may be expressed as pilgrimage
towards a common shrine” (743). When one
partner’s frequent verbal and emotional abuse makes the other partner miserable,
as it does in the Van Winkle household, it is not a relationship between
equals. As Fuller says, “Union is only
possible to those who are units,” (745), and in abusive relationship the
balance of power is severely out of whack.
Irving offers several examples of Dame Van Winkle’s “tart temper…and…sharp
tongue” (458), but to me the most convincing evidence of her abusive behavior is
the statement that “everything he [Rip] said or did was sure to produce a
torrent of household eloquence” (458). Psychologist
Patricia Evans, in her excellent book The
Verbally Abusive Relationship, aptly describes this kind of behavior: “…the anger addict will reconstruct whatever he hears in such a way that it
becomes for him the ‘reason’ for venting his anger on his partner” (Evans, 110). Dame Van Winkle treats the family dog as
abusively as she does her husband (see the first full paragraph on page 458),
but in the end her foul temper brings about her own demise, in a moment of
irony that made this reader laugh out loud:
“she broke a blood vessel in a fit of passion at a New-England pedlar”
(464).
I think Margaret Fuller would have appreciated
Rip Van Winkle’s predicament and approved of his escaping into the mountains,
and I think she would have been fair-minded enough to realize that in adult
couple relationships, the male is not always the oppressor. Fuller voices the balanced perspective that “Male
and female represent the two sides of the great radical dualism…There is no
wholly masculine man, no purely feminine woman” (744). However, I think she also would have recognized
that a woman in Rip’s situation would have far fewer options for coping with
it. In Fuller’s and Irving’s day, a
woman’s place was considered to be in the home – from which she could hardly
stroll off into the woods for the day to get away from her abusive husband! The patriarchal culture’s withholding of
basic human rights from women – education, professional pursuits, a political voice
– kept untold numbers of women economically dependent on their husbands with no
hope of freeing their “incarcerated souls” (745).
Evans,
Patricia. The Verbally Abusive Relationship.
2nd ed. Avon, MA: Adams Media Corp., 1996. Print.
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